D10 Are you happy?

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What is happiness to you?

Have a house and a car, get married, and have children?

Highly-paid job, luxurious life?

Since childhood, whether it is in society or your relatives will tell you what happiness is

Over time we will have a set of established standards in our hearts

We assume we would be happy as long as we met these standards

So we work hard to meet these standards

During the process, you may doubt are you on a path you want to go?

But people around you will tell you just follow the world’s standards

Then you will feel happy after fulfilling all standards

When only one person is persuading you to follow their rules, you may not believe it

But when a hundred people tell you to follow

You may be shaken at this moment

Over time in your subconscious

You will believe that there is only one possibility in your life

But in fact, have you ever thought about what exactly is the happiness you want to have

What makes you really happy?

t is a pity that in the process of growing up, we continue to experience frustrations, falling into the abyss again and again to suffer pain, and sometimes even losing the strength to stand up again.

We can’t help wondering why it’s so difficult to live happily when we grow up? Has God left me so that I no longer deserve to be happy? Have I lost the ability to be happy?

This book will help you find your happiness through a series of sharing and exercises.

The definition of happiness is extensive

Everyone’s definition of happiness can be different

Everything you feel happy about maybe misfortune in the eyes of others

The so-called misfortune may be the happiness pursued by others

No matter what happiness you are after

Remember that it is vital to face your heart truthfully

No one can define your happiness

There is no definition of your happiness

As long as it’s not what you really want in your heart

Even if you reach the standard society expects you to

You won’t get real happiness

Think precisely about what life you want to pursue most in your life

You don't need external approval, or approval from others

You just need to face your heart frankly

Bravely say no to world standards and live what you want

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