D12 You can fall in embarrassment, but you must get up gracefully

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These days after 30 years old

There will always be people around you who “care” about your job, marriage, and childbirth plans

“Have you been promoted?” “Is there a salary increment ?” “Are there any targets?”

“Why don’t you have children after being married for so long?”

30 years old is a deadline in the eyes of many people

You didn’t complete the set task before this deadline

It’s like being sentenced to death

You will become the leftover girl in the eyes of the world

As if your age can only determine your value

It is a pity that in the process of growing up, we continue to experience frustrations, falling into the abyss again and again to suffer pain, and sometimes even losing the strength to stand up again.

We can’t help wondering why it’s so difficult to live happily when we grow up? Has God left me so that I no longer deserve to be happy? Have I lost the ability to be happy?

This book will help you find your happiness through a series of sharing and exercises.

I read a book about the life philosophy of French older women at the beginning of 2021

The author was 50 years old when the book was published

In the eyes of many people, 50 years old may be very old

I feel that love and the pursuit of life are far away from her

Especially in Asia

Girls after 30 years old seem to become worthless suddenly

Not to mention 50 years old

But the author of this book is just the opposite

She used her life experience to tell everyone

How did she get rid of the worldly vision at the age of 50

Live the lifestyle she wants

When she was young, no matter love or work, she would take it seriously

The 50-year-old’s life has been rid of the ignorance of the youth

See the good and evil in this world

Ability to discern and face one’s own needs candidly

Although she will still be hurt, disappointed, and cry

But she has learned to wipe away her tears and start again

Understand that there is not only one form of life in the world

Regardless of love, work, or faith, she can interpret it in her own way

Love and hate are lighter than before

Will not cling to meaningless emotions

Although I’m not yet 50 years old

But I appreciate the courage and wisdom of the author

Reduce some of the things that make you entangled in a life

What’s the big deal if you fall? What’s the big deal if you are injured

Just pat yourself on the knee and walk by

You can cry and vent as much as you like in front of someone you trust

Crying, after anger, tomorrow is a new day

I hope you read this article

No matter what age you are

Can live as carefree as the author

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